How do I get my 4 yr old daughter to sleep at night without a fight? - 4 yr old indegestion
I'm happy about crazy! 2 years is better than my 4 years old, Ma! Each night, to take his fight with all that to bed and sleep. All the excuses in the book .. shes afraid, he wants .. drinking rubbing my belly and sing ... and even if I was always used to go to .. she wants to sleep in my bed. I am a single mother of 2 and I'm running out of ideas. She shares a room with his younger sister, and let the tears Ive tried ad nauseam, but then I have 2 kids crying. It is a night light and put me in a movie for them with very low noise levels. My son is from the same 5 minutes, but in my 4 years will take 2 hours! Ive tried everything, I have more options .. and get my hair. Please help.
Friday, February 12, 2010
4 Yr Old Indegestion How Do I Get My 4 Yr Old Daughter To Sleep At Night Without A Fight?
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Oh, my God, a cup of tea and sit down.
Rights. Two of the mines in which the exception of 18 months and there is a night owl. To keep the owl in the night to the other until the end of so many nights of tears and frustration.
I'm sure you have tried a regular routine. If not, a start. In general, read something like eating, bathing, pajamas, brushing teeth and a funny book or two. A son always wants to talk about the day and it was his time to talk about things that might interfere with or affected by the narrative time. I made it for him, I felt that it is good for him.
No matter what time you return, have the same routine.
TV or movies is probably cons-productive. Stimulated.
If you take four years, is still taking a nap in the afternoon, it may be tIRED later. Let him stay later as a privilege, my older sister. In the absence of television. I found the game and makes them want to stay awake.
Ah! I remembered another thing. Get her one hours you get up earlier. You will soon tire and go to sleep faster.
Well, finally I think it might be what you eat during the day. If there is anything with sugar or caffeine ... it will be difficult to settle down and fall asleep. Although two years receive the same amount of sugar. Children respond differently to food. Try to see it with carbohydrates and protein, and then see if it helps.
As a mother of a large number (seven), I would say that this problem will end. And a new outbreak in force. Motherhood is not the most difficult task in ts world?
Take care of yourself.
I have 4 children. My oldest was the most difficult. I use to Laydown night until he falls asleep and then wake up several times during the night. He was tired, frustrated, and the final verdict.
Did I cry, finally leaving - screaming at the top of his lungs, crying for the first few minutes. This has killed me, I was completely crushed. But finally go, after 45 minutes and go home to bed (with only their right to bed without a drop of water or toilet, or) in the definition, she was so tired she fell asleep. Over the next 2 nights, it became easier. Then she went to bed.
Now, later, with my children, we send all the children to bed 8:30. Deployment of the night starts at 8 Bathwater, all the stories done by 8:30. If you arrive too late to say no. We have set standards Bedroomswhen they were young and now my husband and I enjoy our rest w / night just melts.
Story is set aside to mourn. It will break your heart, but what is the best. You know, she is physically well and in the safest possible environment.
LOL, that if there is no fun, but all mothers go through this ... If you are not alone ....
What I do is tell my children bedtime for ten minutes, take a drink, toilet, and use your pet ... Get into bed and I'll be there .... I give them hugs and kisses, I tell you a secret, and say "good night". As for the story that I one day the story of the night and spent some more time b4 bed so you can get valuable time with her ....
Always nice to read with their children ..
And if this too much for you ...
Share throw him the towel, on good nights, you have your hugging, kissing, drinking, toileting, etc. .. When you wake up, your brother will be consequences for his behavior ....
Then the next day you take away one of his favorite toys ... This How to begin to understand that her office and she ...
It's hard when you have two in the same room together, but they are more stringent than the articles are coming soon ....
I know it's hard, but it is a fight you and all parents go through ....
And since she was a single mother of 4 children, and the father, so that it could be a security problem. Just to reinforce what you like and you will see tomorrow ...
Start the control again, because that decision because you did .... It is difficult to understand, believe me, I am a victim of it. But it is better ...
If your child is asleep, move him or mourn her in another room away from your age of 4 years, and we did. I'm sure you can with them all at once or 4, and you have reason to go to bed and leave him. Enter your water before bed, let them go to the toilet, reading a story and say that I love, and you will see from the morning and we regret. Sometimes you just have a routine at night can they know what to expect and not be one of those things with him if you have met all your needs is a drink, go to the bathroom, history, and I wish you a good night . Not easy, but you have to do if you only want to go to sleep ... and then it can go off and leaving the youngest in the room with the same desires, good night.
Well, I understand very well ... I had the same problem. Stand firm and do not let her see that she is under the skin. However, if she says she is afraid to be completely sure it was not really going to ignore or complain of being afraid. If they really scared and was ignored or complaint that might aggravate the situation worse. Ask him for the day, why they can not sleep at night. It could even be a good reason. Or it can only act as a 4-year normal. Fortunately hope to improve things.
Try to eliminate, increasingly at the center through the use of incandescent bulbs and less bright. A bulb with a multi-slide controller is well suited for this step, you may want to delete. Finally, the light, just great. At this point you can try changing to a small hook in the night light.
I think he may feel rejected, because they need so.She love, hugs and kisses and B.et behaves
Go girls go to bed at the time.?
Try to have your 4 years, go to bed for the first time since it takes time for sleep. Make him feel as if for the time before your sisters come to this in your room.
You can also start before you get into bed. Make a game. Put a label on a clock on the clock. Things were so she went to bed. Ask him about things that are done at night to help.
Good luck.
I had the same problem with me and) only sporadically (break the routine, but what was for me to get a bed .... Our time working routine is as follows: Dinner at 6:30, 7 Bad, brushing teeth, a snack so hungry again) (the last chance for food, is full of water ... lying in bed to read for half an hour to an hour (depending on what she or required) to go to the toilet, insert the CD and delete noght lullaby light and the light of kisses and hugs .. ... the first time that my children call me or from the CD .... if it happens again, the light in the night after .... and if it happens again, a video or a game or favorite playmate took the next day ..... the first few weeks were difficult (due to setup and used) BT ...u is usually very easy .... Now is a good idea, every possible hiding place of a "Monster Search", is before the light ... or you can make changes .... Sometimes I give a light massage instead of pounds, if that's what I want my children .... that the most important parts are a bedtime routine, create and secure leads what to do if they still exist .... try to give you a few weeks .... EDIT: Note on the answer to my ... It's true what they say on television .... A screen flashes an absurd amount of pictures per second and really works on the nervous system that can really work to stimulate a man ... especially as you sit or lie still while stimulating their nervous system .... i LearNED is had to certain classes of child development at school
'll find in him the habit if it continues its recovery, will deteriorate. Let her cry in her room and say that you can not get up, you must stand firm.
A few years ago a friend of mine had this problem .. was in the film and rejected, because you ... So, if your daughter was about 2 or 3 times he said it would close the film, and she must sleep alone. seemed to agree .. but tried to push him. It seems that, at its ... Make sure the burner is lit, and gave him a drink before ... try to do everything they can not excuse another.
Try some things like ... if you fall asleep, not the energy to the park tomorrow ...
or enter into a contract with him .. if you sleep for 2 nights in a row, you can "camp" in the room with mom (a sleeping bag on the floor), which otherwiseYou can sleep in bed with you .. use then I say, try 3 nights! then four .. after a week .. Etc.. .. Finally, she learns that you can sleep in your room on your own
Good luck!
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